What has surprised me is the number of femme furs that have contacted me. I have made friends with several recently. We just chat normally about stuff and have a really fun time. I have to wonder why all of a sudden members of the opposite sex are finding me interesting. Like I have said many times in the past, women never gave me the time of day. It didn't bother me too much, because overall I didn't care. But I was hoping to find someone mainly for appearance's sake. The closet door was firmly closed and latched.
So then I finally came out and life was good. What was the first thing to happen, I fall in love with a woman. WTF?!?. But it was a good thing because she liked gay guys and I sometimes act more like her girlfriend than her boyfriend. And I learned there was a lot more to life than sexual labels. But now that I am officially "taken" and very open that I do like boys, all of these really nice women start swarming around me! Hey! Where were you 15 years ago?!? *LOL* Is it a safety issue? I won't hit on them so they open up to me? Is it just that word is getting out that I give good chat? Perhaps I give off the air that I want to be their girlfriend. We can sit around with curlers in our hair, eating chocolate ice cream, wearing our fuzzy pink slippers, and talking about boys.